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E19 - Non-monogamy: Take Three

Ben and Lacy are triple vaxxed and back in the dating game. Join them to hear how it's going back on the dating apps, including new friends, first dates, some sex, and a ghosting!

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E18B - The Letter of All Letters: Reflections

2 1/2 months after recording episode 18, "The Letter of All Letters," Ben and Lacy have a little chat about how they feel after listening to the recording a few times. There are a few corrections, a few acknowledgments, and some final thoughts.

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E16 - The Couple Bubble

This week Lacy & Ben explore something called the "couple bubble," which is an idea they learned in therapy that says a couple should face the world as a unit, thereby making a safe space for the relationship. This episode is about what happened when they put that into practice, specifically with a particular member of Ben's family.

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E15 - The Time We Both Crossed Boundaries

This week, join Ben & Lacy as they get incredibly personal, telling the embarrassing story of when they crossed each other's boundaries, including how they managed to put their relationship back together afterward.

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E14 - Have You Packed Your Emotional Baggage?

Join Ben & Lacy as they discuss where the emotional baggage they brought into the relationship came from. They chat about their parents, what they learned, and what they changed as adults.

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E9 - Listener Questions!!

Join Ben & Lacy as they answer questions from the listeners. Although no topic was off-limits, the only one that came up was non-monogamy!

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E5 - Masculini-what?

This week join Ben & Lacy as they explore masculinity, what it means, and how Ben's has affected their relationship.

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E4 - Non-monogamy: Take Two

Ben & Lacy talk about how they eased back into ethical non-monogamy after their first awkward experience, including stories about Lacy's pathetic attempts at finding a girlfriend and how a day at the Buddhist temple turned into a night at the sex club.

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E3 - I Hate You, Don't Leave Me

This episode gets a bit more serious than the previous two as Ben & Lacy discuss her abandonment issues that nearly destroyed the relationship.

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