E20 - Listener Questions & We Say Goodbye!
In their final episode, Ben and Lacy take questions from the listeners, reminisce a little about the podcast, and say goodbye.
E19 - Non-monogamy: Take Three
Ben and Lacy are triple vaxxed and back in the dating game. Join them to hear how it's going back on the dating apps, including new friends, first dates, some sex, and a ghosting!
E18B - The Letter of All Letters: Reflections
2 1/2 months after recording episode 18, "The Letter of All Letters," Ben and Lacy have a little chat about how they feel after listening to the recording a few times. There are a few corrections, a few acknowledgments, and some final thoughts.
E18 - The Letter Of All Letters
Ben reads his father's letter, claiming Lacy has brainwashed him, to her for the first time. She has a few thoughts. LOL.
E16 - The Couple Bubble
This week Lacy & Ben explore something called the "couple bubble," which is an idea they learned in therapy that says a couple should face the world as a unit, thereby making a safe space for the relationship. This episode is about what happened when they put that into practice, specifically with a particular member of Ben's family.
E15 - The Time We Both Crossed Boundaries
This week, join Ben & Lacy as they get incredibly personal, telling the embarrassing story of when they crossed each other's boundaries, including how they managed to put their relationship back together afterward.
E14 - Have You Packed Your Emotional Baggage?
Join Ben & Lacy as they discuss where the emotional baggage they brought into the relationship came from. They chat about their parents, what they learned, and what they changed as adults.
E13 - Kinks! Do We Have Any?!
Join Lacy & Ben as they talk about kink! Spoiler alert: Lacy likes to watch…
E12 - Infertility Woes
Join Ben & Lacy as they talk about their infertility journey post-miscarriage.
E11 - The Time We Almost Became a Foursome
Join Lacy & Ben as they discuss the time they nearly moved another couple into their home after a year of dating as a foursome.
E10 - 2017: A Shitwagon Year
Join Ben & Lacy as they discuss the toughest year of their relationship and how they got through it.
E9 - Listener Questions!!
Join Ben & Lacy as they answer questions from the listeners. Although no topic was off-limits, the only one that came up was non-monogamy!
E8 - The Time We Got Used by a Unicorn
Join Lacy & Ben as they talk about the time they considered a triad but ended up (happily) getting used by a unicorn!
E7 - This Chick's Fucking Nuts & I'm Here For It
Join Ben & Lacy as they talk about how mental illness has shaped their relationship.
E6 - The Time We Went to a Sex Club
Join Ben & Lacy as they tell the tale of the one and only time they braved a sex club!
E5 - Masculini-what?
This week join Ben & Lacy as they explore masculinity, what it means, and how Ben's has affected their relationship.
E4 - Non-monogamy: Take Two
Ben & Lacy talk about how they eased back into ethical non-monogamy after their first awkward experience, including stories about Lacy's pathetic attempts at finding a girlfriend and how a day at the Buddhist temple turned into a night at the sex club.
E3 - I Hate You, Don't Leave Me
This episode gets a bit more serious than the previous two as Ben & Lacy discuss her abandonment issues that nearly destroyed the relationship.
E2 - Non-monogamy: Take One
Ben & Lacy talk about the first time they dipped their toes into non-monogamy and how it didn't go as planned.